I really must learn to pace myself

Heh. I appear to have lost two pounds this week without trying. I will now market my new weight-loss plan: cook and decorate obsessively for seven days straight, and you will be too hyped up on adrenaline to remember to eat much, and will wake up the day after the event with arms and legs as sluggish as if you’d done an intense gym workout.

Was fun, but also ridiculous; I really must learn to pace myself! Am contemplating rule for next party — no more than ten (10) savory items and ten (10) sweet items. But can I actually hold myself to that, is the question???

I seem to be worrying about something in the photo below — maybe the possibility that I haven’t made enough food…

(As I plan to just sit on the couch and eat leftovers for the next three days, I’m sure those pounds will swiftly return. )

Cloved-clementine pomander

Cloved-clementine pomander. We will not be playing the kissing games of our college holiday parties tomorrow, (which inevitably resulted in many people coming down with colds anyway), where you use your teeth to take out a clove and then pass it to someone else, as a medieval breath freshener. We are not doing quite so much random kissing these days as we did in our early 20s. 🙂
 
Tip: It’s way easier to push the cloves in, even with a soft-skinned clementine, if you use a toothpick or skewer to poke the holes first! Also, recommend putting the ribbon on first, if you’re doing it as an ornament…
 
This does make a very nice addition for the kitchen ornament stand. The stand was my present to myself this year, a little commemoration of doing Feast — I’m planning to have all kitchen / cooking-themed ornaments on it, ideally ones that I would actually use in my kitchen.
 
My mother-in-law just got me the most adorable red blown-glass stand mixer ornament, and I have a few copper pots on it, along with a pomegranate and a lemon. (I should note that this is not an invitation to give me such things as gifts generally, as I will likely be v. picky about what ornaments I actually want for it…)

Roshani took me out for lunch yesterday

Roshani took me out for lunch at the local Vietnamese place yesterday — I somehow hadn’t registered that when Saigon Pho moved from the neighboring suburb to Oak Park, that they’d also gone from being a takeout place to including a small sit-down restaurant.

My clay pot spicy catfish with rice = delicious, and I think Roshani really liked her ‘bun’ — noodles with grilled pork, lots of veggies, and a classic sweet sauce to drizzle or dip. Kevin often gets their beef pho, and if I’m feeling very nice when I’m in the area, I pick some up for him to go — they pack it in a host of separate containers, so you can combine it perfectly at home.

Late night bark-making with Kavya

Late night peppermint bark-making with Kavya. It’s funny how she reminds me of my mother. Kavi is painstaking — see how she’s carefully pushing the bigger peppermint pieces down so they stick well? This is how my mother cooks, with fine attention to detail and much care.

I’m trying to teach Kavi more of my slapdash carefree ways — I’m a big fan of ‘good enough!’ — but she is resistant.

Kavi did enjoy the smashing of the peppermints, though.

Peppermint bark, next level! Okay, I don’t think this is really bark anymore, to be honest. Molded peppermint chocolates? But regardless, cutest snowflakes. 

Kavi likes these, but is disappointed that the mold only has two snowflake patterns — “Snowflakes are supposed to be all different!” Fair critique! Winter holiday mold-makers, take note.

Gluten-Free Sri Lankan Love Cake

Success! Gluten-free Sri Lankan love cake; I substituted 1/2 fine polenta & 1/2 almond flour for the semolina, and it came out great.  Beautifully golden, the way love cake should be.

Honestly, there really isn’t so much flour in this anyway, since it’s mostly cashews, eggs, dried fruit, & sugar, so I suspect many substitution options would work fine; next time, I may try Bob’s Red Mill 1 to 1 gluten-free baking flour (which is mostly rice flour, I think).

 

*****

Love Cake
(two hours, including baking time; serves dozens)

Some say this Portuguese-derived cake was baked to win the hearts of suitors, while others say it’s because of the labor of love involved in all the cutting, chopping and grinding of the fruits, nuts, and spices (much easier these days with access to a food processor). But regardless, it tastes like love: sweet, tangy, and fragrant. My mother says it doesn’t taste right without the crystallized pumpkin, which you can find at Indian grocery stores, though honestly, I like it just as well with the candied ginger. A perfect accompaniment to a cup of tea.

8 ounces butter, softened, plus more for greasing
16 ounces raw unsalted cashews
10 ounces fine granulated sugar
10 egg yolks
Zest of two limes
Zest of one orange
Juice of two limes
1 tsp ground cinnamon
1/2 tsp ground cardamom
1/4 tsp ground clove
1/4 tsp ground nutmeg
1/2 cup honey
3 drops rosewater extract (or two teaspoons rosewater)
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
6 ounces fine polenta
6 ounces almond flour
3 ounces candied ginger and/or crystallized pumpkin, minced as finely as possible
5 egg whites
Confectioners’ sugar for dusting (optional)

1. Preheat the oven to 250. Grease a 9×13 baking dish with butter and line it with two layers of parchment paper. Grease the paper with butter.

2. In food processor, grind cashews to coarse meal.
3. In a standing mixer (paddle attachment), beat 8 oz butter and granulated sugar until creamy. Add egg yolks and mix well. Add zest, juice, spices, honey, rosewater and vanilla; mix well.

4. Add semolina and mix well; add cashews and candied ginger / pumpkin and mix well.

5. In a separate bowl, beat egg whites until stiff; fold gently into cake mixture.

6. Spoon batter into prepared pan; bake for 1 hour 15 minutes, until firm to the touch. (Alternatively, spoon into buttered & floured (Baker’s Joy makes this easy) mini tea cake molds (Nordicware made the excellent one I used for this) and bake for about 40 minutes.)

7. Let cool completely in the pan, dust with confectioner’s sugar (optional), cut into squares and serve.

Gluten-free Christmas village love cake.
 

Decking the halls

Maybe there are enough sweets on the table, Mary Anne. The parents of the kids attending tomorrow may not thank you for this. Better switch to making savories at least…

It’s not Christmas until I make the trifle. 🙂 Mostly the same every year, but I added a bit of lemon curd this time around, which I think will be nice. And I was out of sherry, so it’s brandy. Mmm…

LAST flash sale of the year

Flash sale — running through Sunday 12/15 midnight! $5+ off books, and I’m offering paper goods, sweets, and bath indulgences too! While supplies last — I’ll update here as we sell out. We’ll be shipping early next week, so items should arrive within the continental U.S. in time for Christmas — this is my LAST flash sale of the year.

Post in the comments with your order, and I’ll confirm and PM with payment details (I can take credit cards through PayPal or Zelle).

BOOKS (please indicate if you want them signed and/or personalized)
• A Feast of Serendib (hardcover) – $35
• A Feast of Serendib (paperback, no photos) – $20
• A Feast of Serendib (ebook: PDF / ePub / Kindle) – $8
• A Taste of Serendib (the original!) – $10
• Perennial (a garden & cancer romance) – $10
• Bodies in Motion (mainstream lit, hardcover, $20) – 10 copies left, and then I’m out. Eep.
• Survivor (SF/F anthology; stories of trauma and survival, $15) – 3 copies on hand (it’s much cheaper on Amazon right now, so you probably only want to buy it this way if you want it signed…)
• The Stars Change (science fiction, $10) – 2 copies on hand

PAPER GOODS:
• Feast greeting cards, set of 6, $10 – 2 left
• Feast postcards (4×6, assorted set of 6 for $5, or set of 12 for $9)
• Feast large recipe postcards (6×9, can be mailed, assorted set of 6, $9)

MARSHMALLOWS (baker’s dozen, $20)
• Honeyed Rosewater & Saffron – 3 left
• Tamarind Chili – 2 left
• Chai Spice – 2 left

BODY BUTTER 4 oz., $12
• Chocolate-Chai – 7 left
• Scheherazade (jasmine, rose, vanilla) – 6 left
• Pomegranate-Vanilla – 6 left
• Vanilla-Lime – 6 left

BAR SOAP ($5 each, or 5 for $20)
• Scheherazade (jasmine, rose, vanilla) — 11 left
• Chocolate Chai (cacao, cinnamon, cloves, ginger, vanilla) – 8 left
• Turmeric & Marigold – 6 left
• Spiced Nights (cinnamon & pepper) – 5 left
• Charcoal & Lime – 4 left
• Amma’s Kitchen (cinnamon, cloves, ginger, pepper, lime) – 3 left
• Lime (set of 2 small) – 3 left
• Pomegranate Vanilla – 2 left
• Heart of the Sea – 1 left
• Sandalwood – 1 left
• Rose — 1 left

BATH SALTS 8 oz. ($7 each, or 2 for $12)
• pomegranate vanilla – 4 left
• Scheherazade (jasmine, rose, vanilla) – 2 left
• chocolate chai – 2 left
• vanilla-lime – 2 left

BATH SALTS MINI SAMPLE (one bath’s worth) ($2 each, or 3 for $5)
• rose
• sandalwood-rose
• lime-vanilla
• chocolate-chai

LIP BALM ($3, or 2 for $5
• pomegranate-vanilla
• mango lime

See this earlier post for lots more photos: https://www.facebook.com/mary.a.mohanraj/posts/10160197150974616

Per usual, I can only ship food in the U.S., sorry! Shipping & handling: (varies, but generally $8-15 in the U.S.; I can calculate for elsewhere)

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Last flash sale before Christmas is tomorrow

Okay, in the interests of my sanity, while we’re going to do one more flash sale this weekend for holiday gifts, the last one that should arrive in time for Christmas (if you’re in the contiguous U.S., at least), it is ONLY for things I have on hand already, so no special orders, please. Sorry! Books, signed and personalized! Sweets! Soaps! Cards! Etc! All first-come, first-served; indicate if you want something, and I’ll confirm if it’s still available, updating the counts as I go along, as I have time.

I’m going to take a little time to actually inventory everything that’s left, so the details will go up in an hour or two, so watch this space. Well, watch for the next post. And you might comment here if you want me to tag you into the sale post, because FB is terrible about showing people anything. Deal? Deal.

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